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The Right Time for Therapy: How to Know When to Start

The rising number of Americans seeking therapy is noteworthy, with the percentage increasing from 13% in 2004 to 23% in 2022. This shift indicates a growing awareness and acceptance of mental health issues, driven by reduced stigma, increased societal stressors, and better access to resources. Despite this progress, starting therapy can still feel daunting. If you're contemplating whether to seek professional help, consider these key indicators, supported by relevant statistics.

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1. Feeling Overwhelmed by Emotions


If you feel persistently sad, anxious, or irritable, it may be a sign to reach out for help. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, around 19% of adults in the U.S. experience an anxiety disorder each year.  A therapist can provide support and coping strategies if these feelings interfere with your daily life.


Signs to Watch For:

  • Difficulty concentrating

  • Persistent feelings of sadness or anxiety

  • Mood swings that disrupt daily activities


 2. Major Life Changes or Stressors


Life transitions can be incredibly challenging, like moving, changing jobs, or experiencing a breakup. Research shows that 70% of people report feeling overwhelmed during major life changes. If you’re struggling to cope with these transitions, talking to a therapist can help you navigate these emotions.


Common Life Changes:

  • Divorce or relationship issues

  •  Job loss or career changes

  • Health challenges


3. Chronic Stress


Ongoing stress can lead to burnout and various mental health issues. According to the American Psychological Association, 83% of Americans experience daily stress.  Madhumita Murgia’s TedTalk explains the impact that stress can have on the brain over time. If stress is a constant in your life, seeking help to develop healthy coping mechanisms is essential.


Signs of Chronic Stress:

  • Physical symptoms like headaches or fatigue

  • Increased irritability or frustration

  • Changes in sleep patterns


4. Relationship Difficulties


Relationship struggles can be a significant source of distress. A survey found that 70% of adults have experienced relationship problems at some point. If you’re having trouble communicating or resolving conflicts, therapy can provide tools to improve your relationships.


Areas to Consider:

  • Recurring arguments

  • Difficulty expressing feelings

  • Trust issues


5. Trauma 


Processing trauma, whether recent or from the past, can be challenging. According to the World Health Organization, around 70% of people globally report experiencing a traumatic event. A therapist trained in trauma-informed care can help you work through these experiences.


Signs of Trauma:

  •  Flashbacks or intrusive memories

  •  Avoidance of certain people or situations

  •  Emotional numbness


6. Seeking Personal Growth


Therapy isn’t just for those in crisis; it can also be a valuable tool for personal development. Brene Brown’s TedTalk on The Power of Vulnerability sheds light on the importance of being able to practice vulnerability in hopes of reducing shame and building connection..  A survey by the American Psychological Association found that 75% of people who enter therapy report improvement in their well-being. If you’re looking to enhance your self-awareness or set new goals, a therapist can provide guidance.


Benefits of Personal Growth Therapy:

  •  Increased self-esteem

  •  Improved relationships

  • Clarity about life goals


7. Struggling with Substance Use


If you find yourself relying on substances to cope, it’s essential to seek help. The National Institute on Drug Abuse reports that 21 million Americans have at least one addiction. A therapist can work with you to understand the underlying issues and support healthier choices.


Signs of Substance Use Issues:

  •  Using substances to escape feelings

  •  Experiencing negative consequences from use

  •  Difficulty controlling your intake


Conclusion: Your Mental Health Matters!


If you are reading this, please know that you do not have to be “broken” to be in therapy. If you have any urge to try it out, we encourage you to take the leap, and find a therapist that will be best fit for you. If you are searching to match with a Texas therapist and are up for some fun scrolling, you can take our personalized quiz, where you have autonomy to share your preferences in therapy and get to pick the therapist best fit for you. You can also check out our practice’s Youtube to learn more about our different personalities and interests! Your journey toward healing and growth can begin today!

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